“Dreamtime visions speak to me of the truth within,
Wisdom, Healing & Knowledge of Self to me they bring,
Helping me to know the true essence of my Soul,
enabling me to consciously experience
I AM …. One with the Whole.”
There is a life force running through all things. Some call it God, Spirit, Nature, Love, or Universal Energy. The name is less important than the feeling it brings and the healing it makes possible. When we remember this force, we begin to remember who we truly are.
For me, this energy first introduced itself through Reiki and later deepened with Seichim—two distinct yet connected frequencies of the same sacred current. Reiki is often associated with the Japanese lineage, while Seichim flows from Ancient Egypt, through the teachings of Sekhem and the energy of the fierce and compassionate goddesses Sekhmet and Kwan Yin.
Where Reiki is the wave flowing in, Seichim is the wave flowing out. Together, they form a complete cycle of energetic restoration.
A Multi-Layered Being
This healing work finds deep resonance with the Anthroposophical perspective of Rudolf Steiner, which sees the human being as a fourfold being:
- Physical Body: The visible body, a map of our accumulated experiences and emotions.
- Etheric Body (Energy Body): The life or breath body, responsible for vitality, healing, and rhythm. It thrives on sleep, air, water, nutrition, and nature.
- Astral Body: The seat of memory and emotion. When the etheric is weakened, the astral can push through into the physical and cause dis-ease.
- Core Self or “I AM”: The indwelling essence of who we truly are – divine, wise, and whole. This is not a “higher” self-perched on some pedestal, but the deepest truth of our being, right here, embodied. The notion of a “higher” self can often reinforce hierarchical thinking rooted in outdated paradigms. In truth, we are not reaching upward, we are remembering inward.
Further expanded by Barbara Brennan, this system includes seven energetic layers beyond the physical—each interpenetrating the other:
- Physical Body
- Etheric Body
- Emotional Body
- Mental Body
- Astral Body
- Etheric Template
- Celestial Body
- Ketheric Template
Each is linked to a chakra and vibrates at a unique frequency. Some healers also experience more than the standard seven chakras.
Blockages, Breath and the Map of the Body
In Reiki, Seichim, and Body-Based Counselling alike, imbalance and illness are seen to originate from energetic blockages—areas where life force energy cannot flow due to past trauma, grief, fear, suppressed emotions, or limiting beliefs. These imprints are stored in the subtle layers surrounding and entering the body.
When breath and awareness are consciously brought into these wounded areas, subconscious memories surface, and with them, release. In this process comes healing, insight, and a return to flow.
Brennan observed, “Illness is a result of imbalance, and imbalance is a result of forgetting who you are.” Others such as Baginski and Sharamon see symptoms as messages needing to be heard, accepted, and integrated before true healing can occur.
While approaches like CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) may assist some individuals in reframing thoughts and behaviours, they often stay in the mental realm. Deep transformation, however, often requires feeling, not just thinking. Jamie Sams says to feel is to heal. When emotion is acknowledged and expressed, the energy that has been held or suppressed is free to move again.
The Healing Power of Breath
When our bodies become stressed from pressure or anxiety, the adrenal glands release adrenaline. This hormone increases our heart rate to prepare for a fight-or-flight response. While this is a natural survival mechanism, it has side effects—particularly on the breath.
When we are anxious, our breathing becomes shallow. This reduces oxygen intake and can lead to fatigue, panic attacks, emotional distress, headaches, muscle tension, and even exacerbate conditions like PTSD.
Breath is life. It delivers oxygen to our cells and removes carbon dioxide, a key toxin. You can live without food or water for a time—but without oxygen, only minutes. Breath is also how we move life force energy. When pain is present, intentional breath can ease it. As infants and children, we naturally breathed into our bellies. But over time, many of us begin to breathe only into the upper chest, especially under stress.
Chest breathing results in irregular, rapid breaths. This reduces oxygen flow and limits the body’s ability to exhale toxins. The result? Fatigue, anxiety, and disconnection. The good news is: this pattern can be unlearned.
The Benefits of Cyclic Deep Breathing
- Stimulates the lymphatic system, aiding detox and healing.
- Strengthens immunity by supporting the body’s self-healing capacity.
- Balances brain hemispheres and calms the nervous system.
- Reduces anxiety and helps regulate emotional response.
- Can be practiced anywhere, at any time, with no tools required.
A Gentle Word on Limitations
If you have asthma or another respiratory condition, cyclic breathing may not be appropriate. Please seek medical advice before practicing.
What Is Cyclic Breathing?
Cyclic breathing is a technique to calm the body and mind during times of stress, anxiety, or fear. One simple and accessible method is based on the Ho‘oponopono rhythm:
- Sit comfortably, feet on the ground. Place your hands on your lap or your belly.
- Notice your breath, just as it is.
- Then begin to breathe in for a count of seven.
- Hold for a count of seven.
- Exhale for a count of seven.
- Hold again for seven.
This is one round. Repeat it seven times.
You may also modify the count to suit your capacity. For example:
- Inhale for 3, hold for 3, exhale for 3, hold for 3.
- Or: Inhale for 3, hold for 3, exhale for 5, hold for 5.
Breathe slowly and gently, always staying within your comfort zone.
With consistent practice, abdominal breathing becomes natural again. You’ll notice your belly rising and falling as you breathe—just as it did when you were a child.
To support this, try practicing three times a day, or as needed. Repetition is key. Studies suggest it takes around 21 to 30 days to form a new habit. But the benefit is lasting: your body begins to remember the way home.
Enter, Exit, Behold: The Body Speaks
Body-Based Counselling draws on these same principles, using methods that access subconscious information directly through the body. Artistic therapies such as:
- Clay work
- Watercolour painting
- Movement and gesture
- Colour exploration
These tools bypass the analytical mind. Through simple yet profound methods like Enter, Exit, Behold, clients can step into a bodily sensation or pain, observe what wisdom it carries, and exit with the insight and resource needed for integration, without being overwhelmed or re-traumatised by the original emotion.
This process allows even unspoken or inexpressible emotions to be seen, shaped, and shifted. Pain takes form in clay. Breath is freed through movement. Colour returns to drawings that once looked lifeless. The intangible becomes tangible. Healing begins.
Real Lives, Real Healing
Here are a few examples that reflect the potency of these approaches:
- A woman preparing for breast surgery received six sessions while also working with a naturopath. Just before the operation, scans revealed that the lumps had vanished.
- A pregnant woman, leaking fluid after a medical procedure, came to me in a vision asking for help. I sent healing and saw the hole in the sac close. Two weeks later, she had stabilised.
- A newborn boy with lung issues was hospitalised. After a brief hands-on healing session, he was released the next day. He later grew into a healthy twelve-year-old.
- I lived with knee pain for seventeen years after a traumatic accident. Following my Reiki and Seichim attunement, I released grief I didn’t even know I was carrying. The pain disappeared.
The Counsellor’s Role
Just like with energy healing, true transformation in counselling comes when the client is ready and willing. The counsellor or practitioner simply creates a safe and sacred space, offers guidance, and teaches tools. But the work, the choice, the healing, comes from within.
Permission is essential. Unless a person asks, the energy cannot flow to them. Healing respects free will. When someone is ready and willing to receive, the field opens. Our role is to hold the space — not to push or fix, but to witness and support.
We do not fix. We empower. We do not impose. We invite.
Signs of Change
Change reveals itself in many ways: a client enters hunched, disconnected, anxious. After the session, they stand taller, breathe deeper, feel lighter. Art becomes more vibrant. Clay forms soften. Colour returns to the canvas. Their posture changes. So does their presence.
That is healing. That is remembering.
“The energy knows the way. All it needs is your yes.”
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